In the emotionally charged finale of “The Bachelor” Season 29, viewers witnessed a heart-wrenching breakup between Grant Ellis and Litia Garr, culminating in Grant’s poignant admission: “I’m not your person.”
Throughout the season, Grant, a 31-year-old day trader, developed profound connections with both Litia and Juliana Pasquarosa. This emotional entanglement led to a finale filled with anticipation and uncertainty. During the final episodes, both women met Grant’s family, each expressing deep feelings and envisioning a future with him. Litia, in particular, felt assured of their bond, interpreting Grant’s affirmations as indicators of an impending engagement.
However, the finale took an unexpected turn. Grant, after much deliberation, chose to propose to Juliana, leaving Litia blindsided and heartbroken. This decision was especially shocking to Litia, who recounted that just the night before the proposal, Grant had expressed his love and enthusiasm about their future together. She recalled their final conversation: “I remember saying goodbye to him and saying, ‘Oh my gosh, we are getting engaged tomorrow.’ And he said, ‘I know I can’t wait. I love you. I love you. I love you.’” These words made Grant’s ultimate decision all the more devastating for her.
During the live “After the Final Rose” special, Litia confronted Grant about the perceived inconsistency between his words and actions. She expressed feelings of betrayal, stating that the abrupt change left her confused, saddened, and angry. Grant acknowledged her pain, admitting that he had been indecisive up until the final moment. He explained that he had been “back and forth” between the two women, ultimately realizing that Juliana was his “best friend” and the person he wanted to spend his life with.
Grant defended his actions by emphasizing that he led with his heart throughout the process. He stated, “I don’t feel like I misled—I feel like I led with my heart. I feel like it would be misleading if I made promises, but I expressed my feelings, which I do every day.”
Juliana, now engaged to Grant, also addressed the situation. She expressed understanding of the complexities involved, acknowledging that both she and Litia had strong connections with Grant. Juliana noted, “I know Litia’s timeframe for settling down is different than mine was… I can understand there being love there for her and love there for me, but I think it’s just two different types of love.”
The finale sparked significant discussion among fans and critics alike, highlighting the emotional challenges inherent in the show’s format. Many viewers empathized with Litia’s sense of betrayal, while others recognized the difficulty of Grant’s decision-making process. The situation underscored the complexities of navigating multiple relationships in a highly public and emotionally charged environment.
For those interested in witnessing the emotional breakup firsthand, a clip from the finale is available:YouTube
